How To Be Repulsive in a Friendly Manner

If you are not compatible with someone; but, they insist on becoming friends with you, explain you are not not compatible. Tell them you do not prefer their type of personality or lifestyle. Also, tell them you are searching for someone different. Tell them may meet someone who is more compatible with them some day. That way you separate from them potentially; except for the most stubborn; and can be free from their annoyances.

Be Extremely Cautious

Never take unsafe chances. Always do, think and say things that no one could ever say negative things about; or, to criticize you for. In that way, you know you are safe. If someone criticizes you for a fault, tell them you do not know how to handle it. Tell them if they think they know how to handle it, to tell you. Ask them "What would you do about it?". That way everyone developes each other constructively.

Showing Yourself to Others

Never allow anyone to know anything about you; except, people you trust. If you meet someone, only show basic information about yourself; such as your favorite sports, entertainment you like, hobbies, movies you like, and other things. If you see something offensive, explain why it is so they may learn from it; and, develope themself. By doing that, people become stronger and better; as well as happier.

When Other People Err

If you see someone doing something incorrectly; and, struggling or not succeeding in performing a task, explain to them gently how to do it in a better manner. Tell them to let you help them. Explain step by step while; they perform the task, how to do it the way you know how. Tell them they may have to do it differently. Instead of arguing or fighting, you develope each other. They may develope an even better method of accomplishing the same function.. Realize there are many ways of performing a task. They may not be compatible in doing it your way; but, they know how o do it correctly.

Offensiveness From Others

If someone offends you; or, you feel intimidated to ague or fight, learn about them. See what causes offense. Before arguing, debate your issues. The offender is to explain why he/she did something; or, said something. Both are to find the best solution to the problem; and, being most correct. This produces self developement; as well as developing others. This also causes peacefullness and harmony in society. If you still cannot terminate the offense, leave each other. Do not argue. Realize sometimes the worst person may win an argument or a fight. Winning does not indicate who is bet or most correct.

Incompatibility With Others

If you see someone who is potentially compatible with you, you show them a basic description of yourself such as your lifestyle, personality, and what you like. If you are not compatible, leave each other. If you experience misery from separation from someone, you became too attached to that person. Misery is your punishment for not being cautious. Learn from it. Misery teaches to be repulsed at your mistakes; as well as teaches patience. It makes you be repulsed at misery; and, being around those who are not compatible with you.This disciplines you to not making further mistakes; as well as teaches you to be more cautious next time.

The Purpose of Life

For a life to be very good, it is important to know what the purpose of life is. It is very simple: People are similar to a puzzle. Each piece fits together to create a larger image. People are to do what makes them happiest. By doing that, they assist others to do what makes them happy. Many creations produces products, medicines, foods, and other things. People who like to farm create foods. people who like to work with electricity create energy. Musicians create instructions, creativity in potential musicians, relaxation for those experiencing stress, happiness, learning new experiences about life, and other things. Jet pilots create methods of transportation to other places. Everyone has something they like to do. By researching everything, you may find your most desired thing to do. Hobbies or other things may be used. If you like travel, International photography may be something you like. Chose what you like to do; and, what may be performed to get money for living expenses. That is your purpose in life: to be happy , and to create things for others to use to develope humankind. The International photographer may love photo taking; while someone may purchase the image for advertisement of a product.