Behavioural Techniques

These are a few of the behavioural techniques for a safe and happy life: *Do not go into secret places with anyone; but, good friends that are trustworthy. People create stories around those things. *Never get into debt with anybody. If you cannot afford it, you do not need it; except for living expenses. *Never enter into conflicts unless absolutely necessary. You have nothing to prove to anyone. Stay neutral as much as possible. Try to deter conflicts with changes of subjects; or simply state "I would rather not argue about his.". * Do not be too friendly. People mistake excessive friendliness to be a sexual advance sometimes. * Do not give out your address or phone number. Tell people who ask, you would rather talk to them when you see them; and, you only give your number to friends. * Never feel obligated to anyone. If someone does something for you; or gives you something, it is because they want something from you sometimes. Properly, someone will do something for you or give you something, because it makes them happy. You owe nothing in return. For most; trying to pay them back makes them feel badly. If a doctor saves a patient's life in a hospital, the patient does not owe anything to the doctor. It is the doctor's job. The doctor receives pay also. * Always listen to people carefully. If they seem to say things that enhances themselves; or, is in regards to themselves, they are only thinking about themselves. They do not regard you as someone important enough to speak about. * Always let all of your friends know when someone does something against you; and, what it was. In that ay, everyone will be defensive against that person. * Never whisper in front of friends. It is rude; and, may indicate to them you prefer their friendship over the friend you whisper in front of. * Always value your friends. Without them, you w9ould be lonely, sad, and miserable. Friends make life more comfortable. * Always determine what type of friend you desire someone to be. Make sure they are the type you desire. Sometimes, the least of your friends may be the best. Always keep your best friends. Eventually, only keep your best friends. * Do not hate your enemies. Always avoid them; and, try not to think about them. Life is more peacefull that way. * Always stay peacefull, calm; and most of all, love yourself. You will think more easily; as well as avoid conflicts easier. Do not let bad things affect you. Look for all of the good things. Watch the bad things and avoid them continuously if possible. * Keep a good discipline. In that way, you will control yourself more efficiently. Be hard on yourself sometime. Be carefull of what you say and do. Always push yourself to the limits when you have a chance; especially, in physical fitness. * Be ready for the worst. Always calculate what could go wrong; and counter the incidents in your mind. Always watch for something to go wrong; but, do not expect it. * Be extremely carefull of what you say and do. Leave absolutely no way anyone may blame you for anything; or to interpret anything you say and do in a bad manner. If someone still accuses you, tell them they thought about that; not you. Tell them you did not think that way. *Be honest. If you do not ant someone to know something, do not tell them. Tell them you do not desire to discuss something; if you do not want them to know about it. * Realize your limits. Make your weaknesses stronger. Try to be ultimately strong in every way. * In most cases, avoid being around people who lose control over you. In other cases, terminate their loss of control by knowledge. * Always look for people and things that provide comfort and happiness; but, do not always rely on them to provide continual; or repetitive, comfort and happiness. * Always think of what people will think, say, or do about anything you think, say, or do. Always be neutral; except in cases where you are teaching someone; or, describing something. * Search for easier; and, better ways to do things. * Do not get into religious conflicts with anyone; except best friends. Religious conflicts always result in escalation of argumentation. * Always try to perfect yourself. With perfection, you will always be the healthiest, happiest, and strongest. Do not expect to reach perfection in less than 40 years. *Do not admit your weaknesses to anyone; but, who you trust the most. Learn how to make your weaknesses strong. * Always analyze yourself for weaknesses and bad things. Eliminate all of the bad things. Being good will make you strongest of all. *Do not link on anyone unless you absolutely have to; and, with only those you trust most, if possible. People have learned how to control you if you link onto them. Do not allow anyone to link onto you also. * Do not throw away your spirits. You need them all to defend yourself. Share; for a short while, with your friends so you may learn; then, return them. * Always strive to develop yourself to the maximal. *Learn to survive under all conditions; including extreme poverty. You do not know what will happen in your future. * Always remember people are different. Sometimes you may get along very well with your enemies; but, conflict severely with a friendly person. Not all good people get along with other good people; or bad people with other bad people. * Only have sex with people you mutually love; and would be willing to marry. Sex is a very serious form of love. It may develop your life as well as to destroy it. * Always keep your mind and love locked in. * Always learn to defend yourself in the worst conditions; including against high rated criminals. Learn Dim Mak martial arts. * Stay in top health. You will live longer; and be happier. * Do not allow kindness, compassion, and other good characteristics to make you weak. Do not expect anyone to try to pick up on you. * Always analyze your environment completely. Watch for good things to go to. Good things will not hurt you. Only bad things hurt you; in most cases. * Avoid obsessions. Obsessions with things or people is a weakness. Learn to control,; or, redirect obsessions.